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The way I see things is that he doesn't even care about me and never did. It all started off with me moving to a new city, I started school and everyone was telling me that this guy had his eyes on me and was telling everyone how beautiful I was. i knew he was a little bit of a red flag (he flirting with every girl, he was very friendly, his ego was bigger than the whole entire country, he had to be touchy with every single girl, he had a pick me best friend) so i didn't really believe he had an eye for me. i even told my closest friend at the beginning before me and the guy were in a talking stage ''imagine if he got a girl, his girl would be so mad'' little did ik i was going to be that girl. Also, a lot of people warned me about him. After 2 weeks (ik really short) of a talking stage he asked me to be his girlfriend, yea ik not even to go on a date just be my girlfriend. I said yes obviously cuz I liked him, he was smart, played sports, wasn't the hottest but had such a cute smile and a funny personality and knew how to make me laugh. A week into us starting things he asked me for my boundaries. I told him ''I'm fine with a girl bsf just don't flirt or be touchy, no touching my tits, just be honest and lots of communication, and trust is key. His boundaries were not really comfortable with a guy bsf, and communication is key, he had no physical boundaries. I thought it was very mature of him to ask me that and I thought he'd listen. i think maybe in november he kissed me and that was mine and his first one it was just a peck. 1st really big red flag: 2 months later i decided i had enough of this girl named linda that he had started being bestfriends with two weeks after we got together, i told him i wasn't comfortable with her and that he was too touchy and i felt like he wanted her more than me we restated our boundaries and all i added was no girl besties and his stayed the same from the beggining, he told me he was feeling the same thing about this guy i was friends with (ethan) so i slowly stopped talking to ethan but he did not do the same thing with linda. He stopped for a week and then continued the same thing. I ignored it for a while but then he started doing the same thing in front of me with linda, jenny and Sarrah. it got worse and worse. I told him a second time and he repeated the stop for a week and continued. i ignored it, thought maybe i should end it and dip. I did not end it because he convinced me he loved me. hed tell me he'd do anything for me and that he loved me more than his mom which I was so mad about. I was so convinced and manipulated that i was his number 1 priority. I told him about 5 times that I was uncomfortable with all the flirting and touching and he never stopped. 2nd biggest red flag: he would always ask linda if he wanted to skip class with him, like bruh what are y'all doing... Apparently he was every girl's therapist and when they were sad he'd skip class just to comfort them and hug them. also when they cried they'd send him videos of them crying just so he could comfort them and love them. HE FUCKING ENTERTAINED IT AND LOVED IT. I hated it and I had enough. I threatened him and said that if he ever did this again I'd dump him. Obviously that happened.
The day we broke up:
I had enough, I knew he wasn't working on his flirting and touching to save us so I wanted to get proof. i went through his computer and found messages with linda saying let's go outside and hug... what if i accidentally touch ur jk jk... and she said ''accidently''... and he said she could say no and she said just a hug. YOU KNOW HOW FUCKING FISHY THAT IS... I was so frustrated and angry that I threw his shit on the floor and yelled at him and broke up. That night we texted and he was acting like he was sorry that I felt this way and that what he did was not wrong. i texted linda too and started arguing and everyone started hating her which i dont really give a shit.
The next day there was a lot of drama and I gave his sweaters back but people were confused because they were wondering why I didn't burn them. I didn't want to. that would be way too toxic.
2 weeks after we broke up:
he was acting as if nothing happened and he didnt care that he lossed me and he moved on so fucking fast. That's when I realized he played me. He never actually liked me, he just made me one of his hoes and did the bare minimum so I would stay cuz I would still have that hope. He moved on in 3 days and started flirting and getting close to this girl named hailey that was flirting with his twin brother (who has a girlfriend) and now i just sit back and wait till they start dating.
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ReplyIn time you will be in the age group where men are more mature and know what they want; definitely stay on track with your goals and before you know it you'll be out of this stage where the men are just looking for a good time. Best of luck.
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