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Im not ok. When I try to move on, in the middle of special and happy moments, I remember him. And I cant control it. I cant be happy normally anymore. Please tell me what should I do.
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Not sure but when I try to move on from people, it does take a while. You just have to continue on with your days by doing something you love or something productive. It'll get better. For me, it took some months, but now I'm happy and mentally healthy. Wish you luck.
ReplyThank u u gave me hope 💕 Its have been about a year and still, but maybe I didnt do the right way.
ReplyAnd happy for u that u got better :)
ReplyThank you! Yes there's hope. Even if it feels like there isn't, there is. You'll be strong through it all.
ReplyBut I feel if I loved someone else, love will lose its value and meaning. Is it not a trait of love loyalty? I will just be looking for someone who satisfies my human desires and instincts. It will not be as special as pure first love. I don't know how to say it..
ReplyMy friend ;-;?
ReplyI wish this thing had notifications- Well, love that's never gonna lose its value in my opinion. Every person is different. You'll meet someone special, I'm sure everyone does. I wouldn't know because I never met anyone like that, yk?
ReplyGood morning friend, I just dreamt of him and I loved him again. Im a joke :p
Sorry if Im annoying u by texting a lot, I cant tell anyone about him and I feel u r good person ( like the smart turtle in kung fu panda ). Anyways, I think if he changed for better I would forgive him although everything he did, he was nice to me a lot too. Is that okay?
ReplyAhh I see. It's barely morning for me, so I'm sorry about not replying. Yeah, yk sometimes I get those dreams too and I don't know why. Yeah, I know sometimes when we think that the person would change for the better it would be nice. I can't give you a straightforward yes or no answer because that's difficult, yk? But I thought the same thing about one person. We cut ties long ago, but now that I'm looking back, it was for the best. It's ok to feel that way. We don't know what's good for us until later on in the future sometimes.
ReplyI'm so sorry, I don't know what you can do other than what you're already doing. I'm going to be in that exact situation in a few weeks and I don't know how I'm going to cope with it, either. The best I can say is to keep trying to move on and one day it'll happen. One day you'll think of him and not feel that awful gut-wrenching tug, and you'll realise finally his hold over you has broken. Best of luck, my friend
ReplyThank u for ur nice talk. I wish u get over it too. You know, I tried that feeling ( feel nothing about someone u loved ), I thought I won. But I turned back to the zero. I do this again and again. But knowing that Allah wont leave me and Jannah is exist giving me hope that I will forget all these days and be better as if nothing happened. As a teenager, I try to live the moment and be grateful that I have my hole family with me.
ReplyI really havent say anything wrong :/
I just wish u get over it. Thank u for ur nice talk 💕
ReplyYou're grieving. Whether it's a loss caused by death, or any other form of separation, the process is the same. It's really rough.
Acknowledge how special that person was to you during the time you were together. Acknowledge the special and happy moments that you get to keep experiencing now that they're gone. It will feel less raw over time. Be kind to yourself.
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