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I'm starting to believe in what the people on the internet say about male friends as a woman. That male friends never really see us as friends.
Because I always thought it was nice to have both male and female friends. Like some of the guy friends would rarely say something that could possibly hint to something else but I always thought it would probably be a misunderstanding.
But then, one of them, who I considered as one of my closest friends confessed how "fuckable" I am while he was drunk.
How much more he would prefer to "fuck" me over his ex.
How my sister is begging for attention with what she's wearing but he would still rather "fuck" me because I am more attractive.
How he is disappointed that I went one cup down in size because I lost weight.
How he thinks bigger boobs suit me better and then proceeds trying to touch them.
How he knows about me being a victim of SA and still doing and saying all of these things.
I didn't really think this conversation we had would bother me that much but with every day that passed I felt more and more disgusted.
I really want to cry right now.
PS. sorry for any grammatical mistakes. English is not my first language.
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ReplyAnd I can see this being a issue for straight people cuz I think everyone you talk to should start out being your friend first. I think it's dumb.
ReplyIt definitely is an issue. But I know my intentions are clear that I just want us to be friends and they are supposed to respect it
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ReplyI feel you. Some people really can't appreciate a good friendship without wanting more, ugh. I have a few guy friends and I'm grateful that they've never been weird about things like that. I think you just have to choose your friends very wisely. You're absolutely allowed to be upset about what this guy did. He sounds like an ass. I hope you feel better soon and can find better people to hang out with <33
Replythank you ❤️ I guess I really learnt an important lesson on that evening
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