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im just so mad and upset from the discrimination that happened to me and other classmates. not to mention, that this always happens.
there are times when i envy those people that are good looking since birth. U know, like they can just stand there and still get praised. While me, i work hard to get praised but still didnt get praised and instead was commented about how i look and how i need to wear make up to look clean and presentable.
I mean, i find it unfair to be honest. The people i know who are goodlooking are the same people that have more than enough money to waste, they can do whatever they want, they are smart that they can go to any university that they want since they have money and can pass the exam. they have cool group of friends.
well, maybe i can call myself insecure.. but i swear. people with faces like me with "okay" type of face, or maybe with the face i have, maybe not even fit in "okay" type,. We feel very small, like our feelings are invalited when were with the goodlooking people and grownups always put the goodlooking people firsts.
there are more but i cannot put it into words, i pm not good at words and expressing my feelings but um im just gonna keep it to myself.
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Yep I know that's right. It's called beauty premium.
ReplyI've never been complimented for my looks before. EVER. Yet I don't call myself ugly. You should love yourself for who you are. People these days get jealous so that's why they tell you this. It's easier to complain rather than to compliment.
ReplyYa know pretty people usually lack big time in other things. And they probably feel like they're expected to always look good and spend a lot of time in front of the mirror trying to hide every flaw. But people who don't fit into that have more character and are usually way more interesting because they don't put all their focus into trying to be perfect.
ReplyActually pretty people don’t need an effort or focus. They can concentrate on other things because it’s naturally there. I think that was the point. There is no such thing as being the most attractive because we all like different features and traits so there is no fake level or expectation to meet. Pretty people do not spend all their time in the mirror and are not uninteresting because of it, not even as much as you wish it. You should be kind to everyone, not just people who meet your fake expectations and think they deserve it. Everyone deserves kindness, not just those you deem to deserve it.
ReplyComparison is the thief of joy.
Stop letting people's shallow judgements define you, and learn to love being yourself.
Don't you love not having to waste time and money putting on mascara every morning? Would you start wearing make-up just because someone else thought you should? Of course not. So why envy anyone who does?
You're not as rich as those kids, but they have too much money, anyway. Hopefully your basic needs are met, and anything else you know how to work hard for. You will know grit, resilience, and resourcefulness in a way they don't.
You can only have the friends that you actively make and sustain an enjoyable friendship with, by sharing similarities, and enjoying the same activities together... They're automatically cool friends because they're your friends, and you're awesome. Being cool is unselfconsciously loving to be yourself.
You might not get your pick of every single university in the land, but I assume you'll find one that matches your requirements. Or a suitable vocational course. Or any other path through life. It's yours for the making.
Look up the Buddhist concept of "Radical Okayness" and try to apply it to your life. It might make everything taste less bitter to you.
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