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Here are few thoughts that helped me move on,
Now these may not suit you all, but it helped me, and I hope it helps you in someway.
She doesn't talk to me, I'm the hopelessly hopeful romantic man who still adores her when she does not care, heh.
I'm a very straight forward guy, I don't play mind games when it comes to love or any other matters of the heart- my strength is in being true to myself.
So here goes
1) Sometimes I think of her being unhappy with me, and I hate that situation- this makes me feel that she should be left alone, she would be happier or at least not be unhappy. And so I conclude I should leave.
2) I think sometimes that I'm burdening her with my love, overwhelming her is not right because again, if she is unhappy and doesn't want me in that way, the perhaps it's better to let her be.
if these doesn't help then I go to the last powerful one, which definitely helps me.
3) I have photos of her when she was a baby, looking at the camera, smiling, grinning, annoyed heh, I love them all, when I miss her I look at those sometimes. So I look at them and I think, I'd do anything, "anything" for this baby to be happy, and if she doesn't want me then I will give her that. And then that thought makes me shed a tear or two but I reach a state of harmony where - I am happy that she maybe happy without me.
* few thoughts *
Trust me if a person loves you they would never leave you, they would always wish to be with you, if they don't then please try to let them go, you know.
And about finding someone new, see it's not easy, I understand. For me I do not have the emotional capacity to start again and find someone, and try and see if they would be right for me, or if I would right for them.
I'm only 28, but I just love this girl very much that I can't see anyone in her place. And I can't be with someone else while I have this girl I love in my heart, it would not be fair to the next girl. So for now I have few purpose in life that are not romantical, and I would look over that.
If anyone wishes to reach out to me for a chat, here's my email: oreva88.woodstock@gmail
I hope you find peace and happiness, and move forward, learn new things in life.
Always remember- Don't rejoice or regret when you're happy or sad, because you are not completely the reason for either.
Cheers!
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ReplyThis is a tough scenario.
Maybe giver her some time and space, and hopefully she will realize that you are like the air she breathes, doesn't realize she needs you until you're gone. Otherwise, you're very young, plenty of time to learn that sometimes you have to leave the safety of your port to find new adventures. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
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