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• Novni Guest · 2 years ago

  Please explain your situation more clearly.

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• Pearl · 2 years ago

  Umm you know it Is pretty normal to be that way . As a human being we tend to compare ourselves to others . Even I do that ALOT .. I get sad over nothing and feel like crying without even knowing the reason.. but the thing I am trying to tell myself for some time now and I think it might help you too if you try thinking that way is " Your journey is yours only and You should never compare it with someone else's journey " . There are certain things I have realized over a time that since I tend to compare myself alot therefore I don't use social platforms because that triggers it even more .. it might be the same case with you .. so what you need to do is try to understand the cycle how do you end up getting sad or what things makes you feel that certain way and if those things are controllable by your actions for example me not using Instagram makes the chances of me comparing myself with others a lot lesser hence I can avoid it to certain extent, similarly u need to find the ways how you can avoid it and If the cause is something which you can't avoid then just try to keep yourself busy , the lesser you are free there will be less time to think about such thoughts and be sad ... secondly it is totally fine to get sad and cry , maybe try thinking of crying as your way of releasing the negatively and the pressure maybe that you you might not feel that bad about crying once in a while ..

  Thirdly I know people are judgy coming from an Asian my parents are on top of it but you need to remind yourself people will always judge your actions no matter what you do .. so it is only you who needs to understand what is best for you and not what would be the best thing to do so that the people won't judge you because such a thing doesn't exist ...

  And about someone getting a girlfriend or someone getting growth you are only looking at the bright side, with relationships comes arguments and emotionl pain and with growth comes hours of hard work , those people also have their own problems it's just you are only aware of the bright side because people always tries to paint a colorful picture about themselves if front of others ... so there is a 100% no need for you to feel low and sad about such things .

  I know you can do this 💜

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  • rare · 2 years ago

    Thanks a lot....This was a big thing for me. I read your reply at one of my lowest points.

    I will try my best to follow your advice.

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