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I've never been in a relationship before. Previously, I didn't want to. And to a certain extent I still don't. But recently, I've caught myself looking at happy couples and just.. feeling jealous. It gets to the point a couple of friends might get together and I'd congratulate them but then I'd be jealous. Sometimes I'd be having a perfectly normal conversation and then think "wouldn't it be cool if we moved in together". And most recently, worst of all, I was helping a friend get over a breakup and I thought "hey, if they aren't dating now could we date?" And- I don't want to. Definitely not with this friend because they're getting over a break up. If I date them I'd be taking advantage of their heartbreak. And it's horrible because I feel like such a jerk, feeling jealous of my friends and just casually thinking of dating someone who very clearly should not be dating for the next month or so
I don't know what to do. I don't even think I like them, I'm just in love with the idea of being in love. I'm so lonely I think that dating and having someone to love me will solve all my issues but it won't, and I don't even know where to begin to tackle this problem. I feel so dirty for even thinking these kinds of stuff. I just don't know what to do
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It is normal to think about this kind of thing. It's true being in a relationship won't solve your problems, but everybody has problems. Including all the people who are in relationships. And it is a good idea to not date anybody so soon after breaking up. But the person you like will move on at some point, will date again. It wouldn't hurt to just let them know that you like them. It doesn't have to mean you're gonna be with them forever or even that you'll want to date but there's nothing wrong with feeling attracted to somebody and telling them about it. Every couple that you know began by one of them or both of them having these kind of feelings.
ReplyUnless you are in love with someone, I would strongly suggest not to get into a relationship with someone who just broke up. It is just sheer trouble. If you force yourself to get into a relationship, you may end up with bad ones too. Just enjoy life as a single person. It may not last long:)
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