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If u loved for the first time and gave everything then break up, dont u think it wont be fair for the next partner that u loved before? It wont be as pure as the first love? I loved once and bcuz of that I think I cant get married in future. He will think of me as a cheater and wont trust me and will get sad for sure. But Im not sure that I can live alone. Im talking seriously plz help.
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Like I wished we start everything and discover new things and learn together, But now I have past knownledge u know? I lost my only chance, so sad..
ReplyU cant just say it wasnt serious relationship or I didnt love him - cuz I really did and so much - and u will remember ur ex everytime.
ReplyI think a lot of people dont think about others hearts, feelings and about true love. They just get in a new relationship like how??
ReplyAlso should I tell my husband about my ex and be honest or he will hate me? I still dont know generally what should I not say and whats okay to tell and being honest sometimes make people I love sad or misunderstand.
ReplyIf you're husband hates you because of an ex, then he is not very smart. Nor is he very in control of his emotions. He might even be abusive, or a bad husband if he reacted like that.
But it's normal that he might be hurt if you used deception on him. Telling a lie or not telling the whole truth, or allowing someone to think the untrue is true when you know better, these are all forms of deception. And wouldn't you be hurt if you found out that he had lied to or manipulated you in such a way?
If you are honest and he is a good man, he should forgive you. But if you are not married to a good man then I am sorry. Because then only he can fix the problem by becoming better. And if he has no reason to become better, then your marriage will suffer very much.
ReplyRomantic love is very conditional, especially when we're young. This does not make it ok to go in and out of romantic relationships, because they do indeed take a lot of time and energy.
Is it fair to your future spouse? Well, whether it is fair or not - it's called emotional baggage for a reason, so it's probably best to be careful not to give your heart away over and over. Best of luck.
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Mark 12:28-31
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