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maybe that's for the best cause i don't even know what flag i'd wave π€·ββοΈπ€·ββοΈπ i always knew i wasn't straight. i mean shit, i used to blush and giggle n kick my feet watching monster high or get embarrassed when my mom saw me watching those like "america's next top model!" type shows. the typical "averts eyes as she walks past victoria secret" shit. but now u see, i've had crushes on men, women, and non binary people... or do i just have comp het?
and that's how i get confused. i've never been in a relationship, but like... do i even want one? i've had crushes yeah, but i was always ashamed of them. i've never had that like, telling my friends my crush experiance. since i was so closed off abt relationships, people just thought i didn't like anyone. at all. i knew it was bad when one of my crushes literally told me he thought i was ace in like 8th grade ππ but at this point, i gotta wonder... maybe he was right?? u can be ace and still have crushes, right??
i just tell people i'm bi nowadays. bi, pan, queer, possibly ace but also maybe not is the most accurate way to describe me. no wait i have a better one - i either like all genders or none at all. but i can barely tell between romantic and platonic feelings so who knows
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I often feel confused about attraction etc, in that weird space between bi/panromantic and asexual.
You can use the label βqueerβ and just leave it at that, if you want to - if a label is more restrictive than helpful, thereβs no point in using it. You donβt have to dissect your identity and put each part into a separate box. The rainbow flag is for everyone!
Is there maybe some internalised stuff or self-confidence issues that you need to work through? It may be helpful for you to find the source of your shame and gradually build different thought processes.
ReplyItβs okay. A label is to be used to identify yourself FOR yourself. Not for others to better understand you. Find what makes you comfortable at your own pace
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