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Two of my close friends from high school have been dating for a little over three years now. They don't really have a great relationship from what I can see. One of them (who I'll call C) is really devoted to and in love with their partner L, who treats C like just a friend.
11 or so days ago I found out that L is having an affair with one of C's exes. I also found out through L's friend that they have had many affairs and even one (now exes) romantic relationship while they were dating C.
What should I do with this information? I read somewhere that someone who knows about cheating in a relationship and doesn't say anything is just as bad as the cheater themselves. How should I bring this up to C, if I tell them? I think they'll be mad at me, at first at least. They're an extremely emotional person who easily trusts people and takes a long time to get over bad things. I just don't know what to do, and it's been eating at me for a while now.
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ReplyI think you should do the right thing and tell your friend the truth. It might hurt, but it will help. Keeping these kind of secrets will only put a burden on you—doing this will help you greatly in the end.
ReplyGive them an ultimatum of a few days, and if they don’t do it Themselves, tell the friend
ReplyPersonally, if I were the one in the relationship, I would want to be told. If c is spending so much of their merry into the relationship, then they need to be told. Despite hurting, the more the relationship continues the more they will feel lied to. If you do tell them, offer support C, since they might be more emotional.
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