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Okay, so I’m under 18 and my mom is planning to take me to my first ever gynecology appointment soon. There’s a good chance I’ll have to get undressed from the waist down, but here’s the issue. I have old SH scars from when I was going through depression, which no one knows about. I no longer self harm, but the scars haven’t faded a bit. I really do not want my mom to see them at this appointment, and I don’t want my doctor to see them and tell my mom about them. Any advice?
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I am sorry you are dealing with this. Because you are 18, your mom does need to be in the room unless you want her to be. The doctor should ask for your permission before allowing your mom to stay. The doctor also cannot disclose medical information to your mom without your permission (your scars). Could you kindly ask your mom to wait in the waiting room during the exam?
ReplyIt’s a great relief to know my doctor can’t disclose my medical information! I’ll try to ask my mom to give us some privacy. Thank you so much for the advice 💕
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