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My older sibling recently got engaged and I am really happy for them but.....
1 year ago · 1 · need advice please, +1
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I have an older sibling who I have always admired. I was always the rebliaus midle child in my family and I was always told that I should try to be more like my older sibling.and for a lot of part I have but it's just things always seemd so much more harder for me while they were always so perfect even with their imperfections and gess I always kept them on a high pedestal in my head. Recently while I happened to fail a test I really worked hard for and didn't get into the university I wanted, my sibling had passed that test and gotten into the same university 2 years before me (since they are older) then last year they got engaged and I was realy happy for them but now my sibling comes home and always says that they don't feel attracted to the person they are engaged to and that they feel like there life is not grate that they don't know what they are doing, at first I thought they were having cold feet or that there fuince was not nice to them and I told them to tell me if it was like that but they said that the fuince is really nice and very understanding then I told them to talk with ther fuince to figer things out but my sibling thinks there fuinces heart would brack if they did that . Any way now my sibling comes up all the time saying there life is bad and they don't know what to do but all I feal like is that there life is fine even with its little problems to honest I feel a little jealous I haven't been able to get into a university and am studying for another entry test berly sure if I would make it while they think ther life is bad......
I might be self pitying a bit but....
I just wish stuff came to me more easy like them and that I had small problems like them ......
With the problems I am facing right now I just want to die if I fail to get into university again.
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Everyones problems are equally valid. Yours is and your siblings too. You might not understand them rn but you might deal with similar issues as them in the future- you never know.
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