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Sorry. But I am finding it hard to find people who relate to me. Or atleast finding it hard to find other people who felt similar to me.
I had my smear test for the first time. I have also never had intercourse. So I have never had to be in that situation , never had to be in that position, physically and I felt really vulnerable.
It was the most uncomfortable , undignified thing I have ever been through. It hurt too. Quite a lot . The nurse was not very empathetic... or gentle.
The thing is that they down played it like it wasn't a big deal. But for me as someone who is a virgin it is. People will say online that you don't need it if you are a virgin but some doctors will tell you it's absolutely important regardless because it can pick up other types of abnormalities etc. So I went because I felt pressured to go.
But It was never made absolutely clear by anyone that it was totally necessary. So I wonder if I just put myself through that for no reason. Sorry, just a vent of something personal because nobody else I know seems to feel like this.
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I was there too! I had a male obgyn and his hands and fingers were big. I wasn't a virgin but I didn't wanna spread my legs at all they had to like tell me over and over again to open my legs lol
ReplyI had to put my fists under my butt and lift myself up off the bed. It was very uncomfortable
ReplyTo them it isn't a big deal because they do this all the time.
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