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Yesterday a boy had asked me out, I have never been asked out. We were in the hallway and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I know nothing about him except his name. I had told him that and he said we could get to know eacother. He is in one of my classes and I see him tommorrow. I dont know how to tell him im scared. Im scared he is lying and its just a joke. I dont know how to explain it to him.
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Wow young love. Just talk to him good luck.
ReplyWhen you are dating, you are going to meet jerks. But, you are also going to find sweetness too. Take a risk, meet the jerks and discard them, but enjoy the sweet. Who these guys are and how they treat you reflects on their character, not yours. So if he is joking as you worry, then he is the joke. There will be others who will be better. There are a billion boys out there to choose from. Just look for the ones with kind eyes.
You know, you can date someone and never be serious about them, right? Dating is supposed to be fun. If you are dating someone and it's not fun? Then you are dating the wrong person. And there is a big difference between dating and a boyfriend. When I was young, I had a lot of dates, but not often a "serious" boyfriend.
And when I did have a "serious" boyfriend, I had a rule when I was a teenager. They had one month. After a month, I thought the relationship could be become for real serious. They might want to do something more than just kiss me. No. That was not good. No. So, I broke up with them after a month.
Also, another thing that works very well is dating someone who is not in the same school as you. You do not have to see them everyday, therefore they are less annoying. They are over there somewhere. And you are... wherever you are... doing whatever it is... you like to do.
I highly recommend the one month rule for all teenagers. In fact, it might be a good idea to continue that rule on until you are 25... maybe 30.
Just don't fall for the redneck love trap. When you break up, you need to be done. There shouldn't be any of that break up and get back together drama, then do it all over again. No. Don't do that. Move on. You broke up for a reason. Go find somebody else.
And that is my dating advice. Ta da!
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