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I'm afraid that I will never have a healthy relationship. I don't feel that therapy helps. And if I don't fix myself I will probably attract another abuser. I don't trust myself anymore and I am so afraid not to marry and have kids. I don't want to live alone.
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Here... see I have not been what you've been thru. My pov, tell the therapist about it. Don't feel like dating? Don't.
Be spontaneous and free for a while. Give time to yourself and all that crap. Everyone has broken strings sometimes.
Replymy advice would be to just enjoy life right now, set dating aside and dont actively worry about it. if you do that you might find you're better at spotting who's good for you and who's not, without the need to be with the first person you see, if i worded that right. someone does exist out there for you you just need patience
Reply"We accept the love we think we deserve." Heal first. A relationship is not a life goal.
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