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Soo what do I do??

4 months ago · 4 · Love, +7


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A couple days ago this guy asked my for my # at the restaurant I work at. He's 5 years older than me and he wasn't my table it was another girls table but he asked me for my #. I didn't get a good look at him but he looked decent. We were talking and he's a really good on the social aspect but,... today he sent me a picture of himself that just turned me off. He physically isn't that attractive and he asked me out on a date today. I dont know if I should go or not because his looks turned me off.

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  • champgirl · 4 months ago

    I say that you should go on that date and although you don’t find him attractive you might gain a new friend or even fall for him as a person.

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  • Selkie · 4 months ago

    I’d say go on the date if you’re completely comfortable. It’s okay to have a preference, we all have things we find attractive, but looks shouldn’t be the only thing we look for in a partner. Who knows it might’ve been the photo 🤷🏽‍♀️ But go with your gut

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  • Khei · 4 months ago

    I know you should not judge a book by its cover, but appearance can be deceiving, trust your gut, its better be safe than sorry.

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  • cry_baby · 3 months ago

    dont go if you dont want! it rly doesnt have to be about the looks but maybe the age gap is a little much. maybe you could be friends if you dont feel romantically attracted to him

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