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So I went on a first date with a girl that I really like on Friday, and I had such a great time. But shortly afterwards, my best friend confessed that they’re in love with me. I have no idea what to do. I’m really interested in the girl I went out with, but I feel bad for not reciprocating my friends feeling. We’re both lesbian so it’s not a matter of orientation, but I’m just not romantically attracted to her.
I’ve been thinking so hard of what to do but I just don’t know 😞 I want to keep seeing the girl I went on a date with, but my best friend expressed how much that hurt her, so I don’t know what to do… aaaa these feelings are so hard to navigate 😭
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This suxes.
Your best friend will never let her feelings pass until she is hurt deeply by you. You can ask her to be just friends, but she will never stop trying. If you are not romantically attracted to her now; you are forcing yourself in a bad relationship.
Who knows feelings can change. But tell your best friend, that you have to explode on your own and not having her guilty you. It will never be healthy for both of you.
ReplySometimes you have to put yourself first, even it hurts. You have to be honest to yourself and to your best friend. And how I'm unterstanding that, you like the girl and are very interested in her. So don't lose that, you should be happy with the person you date and when you're not romatically attracted to your best friend, it is not very likely that its gonna work. Just my opinion and I hope i could help you a little bit.
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Replyeverything is wrong though that is why.
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