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I am a 16 year old bi female. I have a friend and we are considered friends with benefits. we usually hangout on Saturday Sunday or Friday to, but I’ve been really busy lately with family and sports so we haven’t hung out in about two weeks. We in no way shape or form are dating even though people still assume we are but yk people. My new friends invited me to hangout with them on Friday, but originally “Ella” fake name; wanted to hangout and invited me out first to which I responded idk we’ll see. When I told her I might go hangout with said new friends she got excessively mad and protective. At first it started with her sayin “I always do this” and always push them to the side for my friends (false and they admitted that that was a best of the moment feeling). We talked through it and essentially I said we could hangout a different day but I was gonna hangout with my new friends. The next day even though I thought things were cleared up they expected me to ask my other friends to reschedule our plans just for her, and tried to convince me to go to their house by saying they’d “buy my favorite baking stuff” and we could bake which originally wasn’t the plan. What do I do? I’m also supposed to go to a Halloween party with them this Saturday
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ReplyHonestly, I can’t think of anyone I know who had a good experience from a friends with benefits situation. Someone will always get hurt because someone cares more about the relationship than the other. You should have a talk with this person and tell them how you feel. Listen to how they feel, then discuss where you both see this going.
If you don’t want a more committed relationship, then say either it’s friends with benefits and they have no room to be jealous, or end things completely. Give them the choice because if that’s honestly how you feel, they deserve to know to make their own decision about it.
If you want to stay with this person and can see something more happening, tell them that and that you want to take things slow but could still start becoming more exclusive in the relationship. You have to figure out what you want, don’t lead them on.
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