This is my failed long distance relationship

So it all started on this dating app I was starting to feel like I should be open minded and look for someone who may not be around where I live. I wasn’t having any luck the first two days but on the third day I got a message from this guy from Queens Ny. We clicked right off the bat he was sweet gentlemen like, and just everything I’ve never seen a guy these days act like. We swapped snaps start talking on snap cam and had great conversations about everything it felt we could talk about. I found myself really liking him a lot we decided to pick a date to hang out for the first time and he drove 2 and a half hours to come see me I was shocked I was so excited not nervous at all it just felt right. He brought a big bouquet of flowers and pastries it was really sweet. We hung out all day talked, made out it was really good day I went home feeling so happy I found someone that was just so respectful and such it was a turn on. So my birthday was in August he decided to get us a hotel room and bring me to New York and we had so much fun it was the first time in a long time I actually celebrated my birthday and enjoyed it. I really fell in love with him I knew from the bottom of my heart he was the one. So from then on we would talk about more personal things like one day having a family and getting married and just all the stuff a girl loves to hear. I was beyond the stars in love with him and I would tell him all the time as he would me. But there we’re spouts of jealousy that started to come out between both of but it was more one sided on his part, if I wanted to go out I wasn’t allowed but he was always going out doing something. Even with people he met at work that invited him to a club and I asked him if I were to do that you wouldn’t allow me. He seemed to get irritated if I brought that up how it was okay if he did it but not me. Then the deceitfulness started when I got a recommended to follow a girl on instagram that he was following she was actually from an area I was from and he was liking a bunch of her pics and putting heart eyes under them. I confronted him about it I was really hurt crying and he was so apologetic about it and I let it go like an idiot. Then comes two weeks prior to his birthday we were supposed to hang out but he got sick and I wasn’t feeling to well myself so when Saturday hit we talked about hanging out the next Saturday and that Sunday night he said plans changed cause his cousins wanted to do something for his birthday and I’m not gonna lie I was a little upset cause you see them all the time and I just wanted to hang out with him prior to him going to Atlantic City that next week. So that weekend comes and the plains changed and they ended up dipping on all of it and we were fine he was talking about how his dad wants to meet me. We had this whole plan to save up and get a place together and I was gonna move states for him cause he just really felt like the one despite the stuff that had happened. So everything was going good leading up to his his birthday Friday the day he was gonna drive to AC I found out a family friend had passed at only 16 I was so upset throughout that whole weekend was drinking normally I don’t drink that much but I was upset and crying and got in my feelings wished him a happy birthday and it was good he said thank you and I was like you know I wish I could have been there with you but you always choose cousins and I’m your girlfriend which I’m sure made him mad cause he thought I was trying to start a fight with him. But my intrusive thoughts won as they say when I sent that. We ended on I love yous and I wake up a couple hours later to find out I’m blocked on everything and all the cousins he had follow me on everything couldn’t give me an answer as to what was going on. I was genuinely confused just trying to figure out why he wasn’t answering me. Now it took me a while cause his cousin sent me this pictures on a Monday but I got in a Friday that said your boyfriend wanted you to see these. He paid for hookers to take pics with him with there tits in his face and ass in his face and he’s laughing in them thinking it’s so funny. But I had to think about he picked a couple minutes of a photo opp with hookers that weren’t there cause he was this godly man that could pull them. They were there cause you paid them. Ruined a whole relationship that could have been something amazing just for some time pay to play girls. I’ve messaged him a couple times through email but I guess he’s either too guilty for doing it or doesn’t care.