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When it comes to marriage I always think of a line in a Coldplay song that says "Nobody said it was easy " No one ever said it would be this hard " . There's times when I feel we are having a great day and before you know it she'll throw an unnecessary jab at me and it just ruins the rest of the day . Once she sees I'm annoyed she'll either try to cover it up by saying i was just playing or my all time favorite (being sarcastic) she'll be offended that I got mad which confuses the hell out of me . She could never admit to being wrong and even if she does apologize it will be one of those well I'm sorry you took it that way . Or I'm sorry my words didn't come out the way I meant them. This is so frustrating. She says im not affectionate enough but when I try she brushes me off and im sitting there like umm what did I do wrong now .
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Marriage is incredibly hard. Often we get so comfortable with our spouse that we cant imagine them ever leaving us. So at some point, we let out all of the world pressure on our spouse. We would never talk/treat someone like that. But ironically, we do it to our spouse to the extreme. It often makes no sense, how different our spouse can be to you versus another person.
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