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I'm a whore? I'm the whore for wanting simple attention? I'm the whore for wanting people to notice me? I'm not, I just need help. I need someone to hold me and tell me they love me. I have never had male validation from my father because he is a monster, so I look for it every where else. I'm not a whore for showing off my body, or having a flirty personality, I just need help and nobody understands that. I had that once, but it was gone in the blink of an eye, so things got worse. Maybe I am a little bit of a whore now, I don't mean to be. I just like the attention, I blame my dad.
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Now that you are aware of the problem, you can no longer blame your dad, because it will only make you feel worst. Who are you is in your control, so if you want to be different this is your time. Focus on yourself, try to give yourself love that you desire, I know this loving myself sounds Klischee but it’s very important. Hug that little girl that thinks that her dad didn’t love her, and tell her that she is enough. I know you can do it!
ReplyYou're not a whore. Just lonely and wanting to feel noticed and loved. Normal feeling. We all want this it's just that people choose different ways and some are more acceptable and useful than flirting and skimpy clothing. That will get you short term attention and for the wrong reason (because of your body etc). If you want something more meaningful and longer lasting from people around you, build it up through other traits like your trustworthiness, ability to listen and help support when someone is in need, your smarts or knowledge or sense of humour. Those things will build a stronger affection and appreciation than body. Build up your confidence because you have all those traits, you just may not realise it yet while you're young. ❤️ Just remember we all want these things, we just try in different ways as we grow.
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