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1 month ago · 4 · Love, +6


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There's a guy whose already engaged with one of my cousin sister but am attracted towards him. The reason behind my attraction is he got green eyes and m in love with green eyes. He helped me in finding car bcoz he is my dads close relative and we were going out in car everywhere. And this led to attraction he already got engagwd at that time. But he was always a playboy used to hang out with girls. But

When I met him according to him he stopped dating other girls n ask me to have sx with me I denied but after him asking me two three times we had sx 2 times by now. He is getting married in 7 months he wants to run away with me but I cannot run away. I don't know if I can trust him or not. Just to make him jealous and stay away from him I fell into another relationship n want to settle in life but I can't get him out of my mind. Whenever he asks me to call him I can't resist myself even after knowing that he is getting married. I feel like having sx made me more connected to him. How can I control my feelings n stay away from him?? .and can I consider running away with him or its a bad decision?

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  • honeycombs · 1 month ago

    You have a soul tie. Thats why you feel so connected. If you honestly love him, try it. Yes it will hurt your cousin but it's better than him having affairs. If he is just a complete playboy, tell your cousin. Don't let her go through that heartbreak.

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    • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

      How would i know if he genuinely feels or is playing with me as well.?

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      • honeycombs · 1 month ago

        it's just a risk you have to take. Pay attention to how he acts. Can you just grab his phone? Does he stay home rather than going out 24/7? Just be observant.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    You are playing with fire, and when we play with fire we will get burned.

    If the 2 of you truly loved each other then the 2 of you would not hide the love. But if it must be hidden, then it might just be the thrill of the forbidden fruit. Otherwise, if it is true love for the 2 of you then agree to step out into the light with your true love. Best of luck.

    1 Thessalonians 5:11

    Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.

    Mark 12:28-31

    And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:

    Love God first and foremost.

    Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.

    From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.

    Love...that powerful, invisible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.

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