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So to start i guess, i am a sophomore in highschool with really strict parents- which really gives you all the info you need to know. I was never allowed to have social media but 3 years ago i got my hands on it. I was in a really hard moment in my life and needed someone to talk to. Someone who didnt know me on a personal level. They introduced me to the app Discord where I met many more friends. I didnt like hiding a second life from my parents, i hate lying. The situation only made it worse and I actually started self harm. During this time I met some people irl who ended up being my friends. One day I told my friend everything, the life I had online and how my parents know, the guy i was dating there too, my self harm, suicidal thoughts, everything. Last night he called my mother and told her everything. I am no longer allowed to have any apps and I can never be alone because of the self harm. I cant even do my homework in my own room. I still have access to my account and I just cant leave, the guy i love, the friends i made. They mean so much to me and i am conflicted. Keep living the double life till i graduate without a soul knowing, or miss them forever but have nothing to hide...
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That's a tough position to be in. Your parents show they care and are obviously worried about you and your safety. However they need to give you a little slack. I think the person only told your mom out of worry for your well-being. If you can't trust your parents who then who can you trust. They can't lock you out of life forever you're going to experience it sooner or later. They need to realize this. They're just over protective. I guess they just want to know that you're ok or not. I can't tell you what to do. Maybe you could try to reason with them. I mean if they are that protective you should be able to tell them why you think of suicide and self harm. Maybe talk to a doctor about it as well. They your parents just want the best for you I imagine. I hope things get better for you xx
ReplyWhy can't you strike a balance? Try and be honest with your parents about needing friendship. But also be honest with them about why you self harm. I'd suggest not telling about the bf yet. See how they go with the smaller stuff. I'm sure that if you helped your parents understand and also to trust that you won't continue hurting yourself, they may be more flexible on friendships you want to have. Tbh i understand them wanting to keep you off socials. Unfortunately they can be very toxic and harmful to young people imo. Try and come to some agreements with you parents that work for both of you.
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