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uneasy feeling
1 year ago · 2
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i feel mad and sad and annoyed all at the same time and idk what to do now, i started liking this dude a few months ago and idk how and why, hes fun to be with and hyper type of person but he has this jokingly mean personality and at times it js kinda hurts me and i dont rlly like it when people are "jokingly" mean to me since i dont like it when im treated like that and im js confused abt everything i text him everyday since he doesnt text first and im giving him my time and effort texting and i js feel like all of it is a waste im js rlly getting unmotivated to give effort, i dont know what to do and i feel like he likes someone else alr, i js feel rlly ignored our chats wasnt like before it feels different...our chats is rlly short and im trying to bring random topics up and he js seems uninterested...i js dont know, i need someone to give me advice on what to do..
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hey, first of all, if someone's joke hurt you, then it's no more a joke. Tell them you are not comfortable. You should create a line, which no one should cross.
The same things used to happen to me as well, and just because I didn't want to be rude, I used to avoid it, and this was my biggest mistake.
And about the guy things, if you feel you are putting in a lot of effort, and not getting anything in return, then it's time to stop forcing your feeling on him. It will hurt you in long term. I was in a relationship of 3-4 years, and I also felt that I am putting in a lot of effort, but I am not getting that love in return. But since I was so much into him, I wanted him anyhow, even if he is ignoring me, flirting with someone else, and whatnot. And it used to hurt me a lot.
so it's better to have the pain of separation early than to have a one-sided love
Just put yourself as your priority, it's vvvvvv important. You will get someone you deserve in the future, who will love you a lot.
ReplyWhy do you keep texting this jerk? Is it because you are lonely? Tell him that you don't like it that he is jokingly mean and see if he stops. If he doesn't stop have nothing more to do with him. If you are the only one giving the effort to communicate realize that he is a waste of your time and find something else to do. Stop texting him and if you never hear from him again you will know that you did the right thing.
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