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Again faced a new incident of selfish people around me. Being a good person is a curse sometimes. My heart has been hurt so many times, as it is getting difficult for me to overcome the emotions which are disturbed from last few days. I have tried to forget the things which are reflecting negativity on me.
Every morning, I wake up with a new hope that the day would pass excellently. However, it is not happening in reality. Moreover, I want to make myself happy and keep calm. As, I know how to fulfill my words and responsibilities. If I have committed something then I always accomplish the things according to the availability.
Today, I went to market along with my in-laws. I committed her to complete her all tasks. Therefore, I did so according to my words. She asked me what to eat in afternoon. I said I will bring the food with me. She asked me if to have money. I denied and said that I already have. She just did formality by asking me for money. She asked me money as formality. I have enough money for all my needs. Even, I don't expect anything from anyone. What is the purpose of family if formalities occur like this?
I do not have expectations but it hurts when I walk straight in life and others bring complications and misunderstandings in life.
After completing all purchasing, I bought some food too and then came back home. When I came back home, my mother-in-law hold her own pack of food and started eating. She didn't ask me for sharing and again did formality by asking that if I had brought food for myself or not. I answered that I have brought food for myself.
There I felt that firstly people do formalities by asking then they do nothing. They pretend like they are having care of me but in reality, they do not have empathetic behaviour for me.
I think all the bad things are happening around so that I can be more strong to handle the situations. I must be sure that I deal with the hardships of life with confidence. God is making me ready by providing me familiarity with the different aspects of life.
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A lot of people do and say things without genuine intentions or their intentions are hidden (eg. pretending they're being good). It's good that you're independent and don't need them as they would love it if you needed them and they would take advantage of you. You just keep being you as you're beautiful inside and out ❤️
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