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a new year

2 months ago · 2 · Need Advice, +2


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what if this year isn't good?

I always have an illusion that things will get better but it never does. something just feels off. im not excited for anything anymore. I have no spark. I have no motive. I have nothing to look forward to. its like im just empty. like I lost myself all of a sudden .

how do I find myself and my spark? what am I supposed to do? what am I supposed to expect?

I feel sick to my stomach to fail this year, for something bad to happen. for my relationship to get worse. I just feel so unsure.

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  • Novni Guest · 2 months ago

    you wont fail this year, the way to find your spark again is to find something you love doing

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  • nqr · 2 months ago

    Do something different. Do things that challenge yourself and get you outside of your comfort zone. Do things you enjoy and genuinely are interested in.

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