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i'm a first year and i just started second semester of college, and i don't know, this semester feels not great so far. i feel like i wasted the opportunity to make solid friendships over first semester, and now coming back, i feel really homesick and alone. i find it really hard to reach out to people and just make conversation, but i know i really need to if i want to get myself out of this situation. i am feeling sad, and i've spent the majority of nights after class in my dorm, even over the weekend. i don't know what to do at this point as i feel that everyone else has already made a solid group of friends. any advice?
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Hi, I couldn't help but relate to this. I am also a first year, about to start my second semester. I am in the exact same boat as you. If I were to give you advice, I would definitely say not to overthink it. I overthink things all the time and it doesn't go very well. I would also go to small group things, like if your dorm building is planning a movie night, I would go to that. It was easier to meet people in a smaller setting. I am really sorry if I am no help, but just remember to breathe, and take it slow and go with the flow. They say everything works out in the end. If you find no luck over there, I can tell you now that if you need it, you just found yourself a friend right here. :)
ReplyI don't know you but it feels like I know you btw I am in similar situation. I'm a first year student too who started second semester. I feel left out too. I also wanna have groups of friends but I end up feeling so left out as they already have so many inside jokes. i know its sad and lonely and i need advice too but i guess i will give you advice to try hanging out or spending times with as many different persons as possible as it will help you to find out what type of people you wanna hangout with. When you are with group of people try interacting with them as much as possible and at the end don't stress about it. I could be your friend just the problem is we don't know if we ever gonna conversate or not. you can share your ig if you want to.
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