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I wish there is a pill where we can eat and the heartbreak just dissapear. I can't help thinking about him. My heart get tight everytime I think that I might lose the one. I wish I could turn back time.
We were just in the talking stage and things got awkward and he ghosted me. But somehow I caught feeling and now I keep feeling the heartbreak.
Any advice on how to move on quickly and forget about him.
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Go out with friends (not couples) - this helps a ton. But if you don't have friends, then sometimes it helps to do something productive, something with a clear goal that you can be proud of. You can even use heartbreak to propel you. For example after I got dumped I started working out so I'd get hot and make my ex jealous lol Sounds stupid but it really really helped. But you could also work on art projects, writing a novel, getting a new job or graduating from school, etc. These are things that you can channel your heartbreak into, and achieve a goal that's even bigger than love because you'll achieve something that lasts. Try everything and I'm sure you'll find something that works.
Replylet me tell you this, what youre feeling right now is not love. Whenever we get ghosted or rejected, we get obsessed with the person which is a big big mistake. My recommendation is to delete his number, and move on. I know it is easier said than done. But you can set an unusual goal on personal development and give all your attention and focus to this goal. For instance, start learning Japanese. Or start taking maritial art classes. Something that you have never done before. ANd test yourself, see how much you will acheive when you start something from 0. Trust me, once you start focusing on your progress, that dude will be long gone and forgotten.
ReplyWrite a list of all of his bad points and when you miss him read it. You will soon get over him.
ReplyWrite down the list of all times he treated you bad and how that impacted you. Keep that list on your desk or wherever you work. If you catch yourself thinking of him, then remind yourself of those times by reading the list.
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