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For the past few weeks, maybe even month, I've been feeling this terrible wave of sadness. Academically, I'm burn out. I've been doing college classes as a junior in highschool, and I am about to graduate college with an associates soon. Socially I'm tired. I've never had friends and have always been the quite one. People ask me for help on homework but that's about it. Outside of family I have never known anyone else. I want to feel loved and feel guilty about it. I know my family adores me but I want to feel romantically loved, and loved by friends which are nonexistent in my life. I lack any and all motivation. Maybe it's just a phase but I'm tired of it. I'm soon going to be 17 and haven't had a friend or boyfriend. Sometimes all I want is just someone to tell me hi and ask me questions. To talk with someone instead of just overhearing conversations. I don't even have online friends, I used to have 1 but we fell out of touch. I desperately want someone to reach out and talk, have fun, enjoy my life. I've spent the bulk of my youth locked up in my room doing nothing. I've tried loving myself and having fun yet that's not enough. I went to the mall with my family this past weekend and everyone was with their friends, or people their age. i was the only one with my family. I want to confess this to someone and just let out all my thoughts but I have no one outside of my family. I dont want to worry them with my problems and I dont even want them to know. I feel so stuck. I regret this life so much. I wish I just beg for a change. I've tried manifesting and talking to people but nothings ever worked. I feel so trapped I just want to stop this cycle. I spent the past couple of days crying myself to sleep. It's even worse now that valentines day is approaching's because I feel this gap so much stronger now. Please help I'm loosing myself, my youth. I just want someone to give me a chance, a friend I dont care really. I blame myself though for always being so timid and scared to talk to others. I've tried making conversations with people but they never really listen and I feel left out.
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hey! i’m so sorry to hear that youre feeling this way, i’ve been there. if you want some advice on making friends, i find it really easy to meet new people at a job if you have one. Or maybe find another quiet kid at your school, i’m sure they are just as nervous as you :). the hardest part about it is having the confidence to put yourself out there, so try to believe in yourself you got this! as for school, i feel you, its super tough to get motivation and i hope you can eventually regain your ambition <3
Replywhat you gotta do man is to just step back in perspective and look at all the stuff in your life that causes you to react in a manner that is anything but higher, vibrationally.
ask yourself this question:
what..do..you..want?? hm? truly what do you want for yourself?
your entire life you are taught sets of rules, how to behave and act since you were old enough to walk. probably before then.
then you grow up and you memorize those rules, carry them out, even. and you expect to be happy and set for life for following these rules, regulations, standards, and youre just not.
but how do you move past that?
you take a step back and you look at what you want, and what you have currently.
connect that, and that situation and connect it to what you can learn from it. every single shtty situation
if you find that youre not where you want to be then you gotta make a plan, and stick to it.
being uncomfortable, being in a situation where you have to endure pain, all of that isnt bad.
its what guides us, and what helps and supports our growth in knowledge, character, etc.
follow your pain, sit and talk with it, its your guide, your teacher about yourself, your life, your patterns and habits, about all those parts of you that are bad and ugly
theyre teaching you somethin' man..
because if you can learn to detach from your pain you can learn to listen to it and turn it into beauty. and make something of yourself with it.
thats what life is about for the spiritual warrior.
you gotta open up man
your shadow side is not one to be feared, hidden, shunned. its there so that way you can have a better relationship with you
everything you experience on the negative side of the coin is there to support you, realistically.
isolation is there so that way you can focus, really focus on the only thing that matters. you, your mindset, your health.
so that way you can tap the breaks until you come into a full stop slowly, and not slam on them and hurt yourself coming to a stop.
life is about learning to adapt to your surroundings, not about how to survive.
if you can teach yourself to go with the flow of the universe and of yourself then you can master full self-awareness. you can master seeing how your actions, thoughts, intakings, how your diettt can affect what you attract into your life.
and how to change your bad habits, and break them. because remember:
a bad diet leads to a bad habit
a bad habit leads to a bad cycle
and a bad cycle leads to..well..where you are now my friend.
how we feel on the inside is what we attract
because life is like a mirror
okay?
you wanna change? stop doing the same sht that got you in the situation youre in to begin with.
love you.
ReplyTry getting a therapy, feel free. Talk everything to someone.
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