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So my girlfriend and i have been together for about 6 years, the thing is that after the pandemic she changed in a bad way. Long ago we used to have sex like 2/3 times a week and even if we didn't have sex we used to demostrated passion and love in a daily basis. Now things have changed and we barely have sex or even kiss passionatly. Also, she started to dislike Blowjobs for about 3-4 years, and i desperatly need them, i cant take this anymore because my urge to have sex and receive love in that way is uncontrollable, i have never cheated on her. I try to talk to her about this but she isn't open to try again or even make me happier in that way, and when i try to persuade on just breaking up she said that without me her life doesn't have any meaning (she already had issues with hurting herself). The thing also is that we shared a lot of friends (on work and collegue) and people tend to choose me over her, so if we break up i am affraid that she will be alone with her family only, which maybe can lead on her killing herself.
What should i do? Should i be unhappy and keep the relationship so she can be happy or should i follow my guts and break up to try to have as much sex as i want?
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get her help. you ultimately she has to love her self. you can be the only reason for her to exist. dont let her negativity ruin your dreams
ReplyCommunicate with her about this to try to get to the root of her problem.
ReplyThis is complicated on so many levels.
In my experience a committed relationship is extremely difficult after several years of being together, and that's without children involved. Once there is a family then it becomes exponentially more difficult. If you love her, meaning the thought of her moving on with another man is unbearable, then have patience and maybe start planning for the next step in this committed relationship. Women have a clock and they don't want to waste the best years of their life and get nothing in return. But, if the thought of being married with children is not for you, then yes you might want to consider sailing off into the sunset so she can move on with the next chapter in her life. I will say, in my experience, a strong sex drive will always be a problem for you since women's sex drive usually decreases with age. Many married men are frustrated with their wife's rejections, but at the same time - going out there and indulging in promiscuity will only lead to dark consequences. Such is life, trying to find balance. Best of luck.
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