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imma just preface this by saying im a black woman and i dont hate all men or all non people of color HOWEVER i hate that my neighbor has no awareness for other people's struggles that stem from racism, sexism, and overall systems of oppression. he has made multiple offensive comments around me. joked about how my dad wasnt around, joked about police brutality, joked about lynching something, joked about RXPE and he just continues to do despite "apologizing" after each time. im so sick and fucking tired of having to call him out every time he says something awful just for him to say something else that is awful a month or so later. i feel like my friendship with him cant be just as simple as enjoying eachothers company's or hanging out when i have to constantly teaching him. its like im his learning experience. like im being made an example out of. im his 1st black friend that he's been close with and it is honestly so mf exhausting. he refused to call ethnic items, like a bonnet, by its actual name. he refuses to change his behavior. he keeps making excuses for his behavior and so do i. i cant do this shit anymore. he needs to act like a decent fucking human being. its not that hard to open up google or tiktok and educate yourself. he's a lazy moron. he once didnt wanna touch my hair cause he was worried about touching a black woman's braids. like huh??????? are you stupid. you could just ask but no instead he caressed my face which is fuckin weird as hell. i really wanna tear him a new asshol and call him out on every bullshit thing he has ever told me or done. he's weak. he wouldnt even change. he doesnt care. plus he's blatantly selfish so honestly i think he loves the privilege he gets being a white man. he wouldnt wanna change. im also aware a lot of that end part was just cynical assumptions but right now ive lost 98% of patience with that man. i hate it here. i didnt ask to be a woman. i didnt ask to black. i didnt ask to deal with that intersectionality. i didnt ask to be that man's teacher or life lesson(s). i just wanted a friend and at this point it doesnt really feel like a friendship. its a nuisance.
plus my coworker gave me sass earlier and that put me in a bad mood so now im pissed about my neighbor again. i vented last night to my roomie because i was awake at 3am from my sore throat. bless her heart. shes asian and has faced aloooooot of discrimination and stereotyping and microaggressions so she gets it. we in this shit for life. #4lyfers πππ
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