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I recently moved in with my boyfriend and I think it’s been a little hard handling house duties, he pays bills and most of the rent. So I have been doing Most of the house duties. Because he takes care of all of that. But I’ve been feeling a little exhausted because I get home from work and get straight to cooking and we barely have time for ourselves. So I barely have time for myself too because housework takes time !!! And idk I wanted to ask if your partners also do some house duties even when they pay most of the rent and bills? Maybe it’s my job?? I pay maybe like 30% and he pays the rest. But I’m like danngg I barely have time to go to the gym now too ): so how can I bring it up to him. He only helps me cook sometimes which i apreciate and he makes breakfast for me. Sometimes. But I mainly cook Monday through Friday after work and by the time I’m done it’s tiring and I want to go to bed. How do you guys split house duties even if your partner earns more .
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Tell him how you feel, tired. Ask him to help make meal plans with you and invest in a slow cooker, nothing like coming home to a done meal in a great smelling home. As for the housework, I cannot imagine two adults without children making too big of a mess, perhaps hire a cleaning service part time? Who cleaned up after him before you moved in?
ReplyI am married for a year now and I can say that PARTNERS DO HELP. I do wfh and he goes to office and he comes back from his shift (we both have same timing) and helps me in all the household work. He cooks and I clean. Sometimes I cook and he cleans. Up until now we have done this because before marriage he used to live alone at his home and he eventually knew the importance of cooking and cleaning. So if men wanted to help, they will help and do 50-50 and not 20-80. So your partner clearly doesn't want to share the responsibilities. Talk to him and stop being a earning maid for him. Period.
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