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hi, i hate my parents officially. i’m grounded and i literally got grounded for no reason. so last thursday night i was abt to go to bed. i had gotten out the shower and was getting ready for bed and my step mom came in but i was changing and she says something abt me needing to be in the bed . so when i got done changing i got in bed at like 10:10 (10 is my bedtime). and so i’m on my phone while i’m laying down just scrolling through tiktok and my step mom comes in AGAIN and has something to say and so she took my phone and she was getting on my nerves so yes i did roll my eyes at her and she was tryna yell at me and then she asked where my apple watch was and i pointed to the top of my drawers and she was like go get it, but i wasn’t finna go get it bc i was already in bed and she was up in my face.so i repeated myself in the same tone and was like “it’s over there” and she started yelling and saying how i was being rude and disrespectful and was raising my voice at her, when i didn’t even do anything. so fast forward to last night and we live in apartments and they pick up the trash at 8 pm, and i forgot about the trash and when i remembered it was already 9 so it was too late. my parents came home shortly after 10, and my mom came in my room mad complaining about how i didn’t set out the trash. then she came back to my room and asked who watches me and my boyfriend when we are at his house. i said his mom bc it’s true, his mom sits on the couch next to us and watches us DOWNSTAIRS in the LIVING ROOM. and so my mom started complaining about us cuddling and kissing. she then said i was not allowed to go over his house anymore and his parents couldn’t pick me up anymore either. like she literally did all of this for no reason . i am 15 years old. and i’m pretty sure she found out bc we took pictures but they weren’t bad and i don’t understand why she’s making a big deal out of it. kissing and cuddling is really not bad at all especially not at my age like i’m literally 15. they’re so strict and it’s so stressful bc it’s like i can never do anything. not to mention my bf is my comfort person for the stuff going on at home and we see each other at school but i don’t like hugging and being affectionate in public, which is why we cuddled at his house because it made me feel better. but this whole situation has brought down my mood tremendously and i’m low key depressed and sad. any tips or advice for me? it would be much needed !
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ugh sounds like a classic case of wicked stepmother. Unfortuately there isn't much you can do about that. It's usually because she's jealous, insecure of her own relationship, or just an overall miserable person.... could be all 3. If you have a decent relationship with your dad maybe you can talk to him about it. But in any case, try to remind yourself in just a few years you'll be free of her, you'll be able to move out, go to college or get some roommates and be your own person. It just sucks that you gotta deal with her. She's outta control and probably mentally unbalanced
Replyactually it’s my mom lol. my mom is les. but it’s like she always agrees w my stepmom and takes her side, so it’s like it’s pointless
ReplyI agree with everything the other person replying to you just said. My mother and her bf used to interfere heavily between me and my bf too when I was the same age as you are now and even though they died well over twenty years ago I still feel embarrassed and awkward about it. Your step mom is going to achieve nothing but the opposite of what she wants I mean who would respect anyone behaving like her especially when they’re interfering between you and your bf. Sadly I don’t have any advice or tips because when you’re not an adult and have to live at home you’ve got very little freedom/privacy/escape but just know it’s not forever and try to keep as much as you can private from her
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