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Does this guy like me? I'm not good at telling if guys like me pls help!
1 year ago · 4 · Need Advice, +6
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I like this guy, but I'm not sure if he would be interested in me. Would you mind reading this and telling me what you think?
Ok, so we had been in the same friend group for a while (a group that consists of my best friend, my best friends older sister, and the older sister's best friend). This guy is the best friend of my friend's sister so we hang out in that group once in awhile. He's 19 and I'm 18. When I'm around him, he treats me like an average friend and sometimes like a kid. He's only a year older than me, but I do have soft features that make me look young, and I am best friends with his friend's little sister, so I get how he can make that connection. When we're alone, it seems like he's flirting with me. He'll usually calm down and ask me like real questions and well have a good conversation and it seems like he really cares. But around the being of the friendship he tried to set me up with his best friend at his college soooo... We were all at a theme park one day, and he asked me what my type was and when I was confused my friend said hes flirting with you because he's annoying. (He flirts with people a lot I guess) Later when we all got dinner afterward he asked what my type was again and I asked what his was and then he went on to literally describe me except with blond hair. Then my friend interjected that he was describing his girlfriend (who he broke up with now). I always start to think he likes me and then hell, act like a total friend who has no interest and I think NOPE 100% he does not like me but then well be alone just us talking and I'm like this guy is totally into me right? Mabie its just me wanting things to mean more than they do? I don't have much experience with guys. I was feeling like he didn't like me one week and I had to miss a group hangout for work when I saw him the next day at church he said he missed me that day and asked why I wasn't there. The next day I hung out with my best friend and she told me they were all out by the pier talking about who was the prettiest girl in the group and he said he used to have a crush on me. She said she asked if she could tell me he said that and he said sure. IDK what that means. Does that mean he doesn't like me anymore? Is it worth trying to flirt with him this summer or will it ruin the friendship? bc he's a really great, fun, caring friend to have and I don't want to ruin it or make a fool of myself. Please let me know your opinion. I've never dated or even shot my shot before.
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Girl. He's giving you mixed feelings. Maybe he's into you or maybe not anymore but most probably he's confused and he actually likes you but if he does then don't you tell him that you love him just wait for it or maybe just ask indirectly while olaying truth or dare because if you ask directly maybe everthing will be ruined. Also sometimes boys gives you mixed feeling and that's because they just be flirting with everyone and if you like ditch them they'll jump onto another girl right away that's when you realise how dumb you were to think he was great because they act so nicely welll I just hope its not that way.. And if its bothering you so much just jokingly tell him he's kinda cool amd you'd date him if he rejects you or sth. There is nothing to feel embarrased about act cool like you don't care that's how it goes you're just straight forward ..But I just hope for the best
ReplyIt would be nice to be with him I mean after all you also typically kinda like him and yeah not to hurt your feelings if he's the type of flirty visual type my gut feeling is right move back girl.
ReplyHe used to have a crush on you and he doesn't have one now so don't let your imagination lead you on.
ReplyWait a little longer.
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