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For some context, my boyfriend and I are long distance (we meet up on breaks) and have been together almost a year, coming up this may. Whenever we are together in person it is absolutely wonderful. However, now that we have been away from each other for so long again I am started to feel detached from our relationship. I don't think our futures match up very well with my own career taking place in other countries. And I keep having this longing for a girlfriend (happened twice now even when i already had a bf) but i think I really do like boys also. I'm just so confused and I feel like maybe I'm holding myself back in order to stay with him. He fully plans to marry me in roughly 5-6 years since we are both already attending university. But we don't have the same ideas on children either (I don't want any). At first I really felt like I wanted to marry him but now I just don't know.
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When you are with him next time see how you feel and if you still think you don't know if you want to marry him talk to him about it.
ReplyLong distance can put a strain on any relationship, even the strongest of ones. And promises taking place far ahead in the future can seem really unobtainable. It's important for you to listen to your gut, let your instincts guide you to how you're feeling. It's OKAY if things have changed for you, and it's okay to let go if that's what you truly want. If you're currently in University then you're probably still young and have plenty of time to worry about things like marriage and children in the future. Right now you should focus on school, and learn more about yourself. Consider this relationship as a life lesson that taught you something about how you feel. Even if the only thing you learned is that you don't like long distance relationships, that's still a success. Sometimes knowing what we don't want, is better than knowing what we do want.
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