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(Tw: dont read this if you're sensitive to sexual topics)
There's this girl at school who will not leave me alone. She's always texting me disturbing and inappropriate things. I met her through my friend's girlfriend (she and his girlfriend are acquaintances I guess). She asked that friend for my number and he gave it to her because he thought she had a crush on me and was trying to help me pull her or something. I guess she probably does have a crush on me because one of her reoccurring texts is her asking me rape her. Yeah. That's what I meant by disturbing and inappropriate.
She sent me another paragraph asking me to rape her like 30 mins ago. She also sent me her adress and a pic of her without a bra. I haven't responded. That's why I'm writing this post because I seriously don't know what to do about this. She's obviously not okay and I feel like I need to do something or she's going to go to some other boy and do the same thing and possibly get hurt fr. What do I do? Who do I tell? It's stressing me out. I don't know what to do.
At first she was pretty normal with her texts. She did overshare quite a bit about.. various things, but I didn't think too much about it. One night she started venting to me about feeling worthless and ugly and stupid etc. I really tried my best to comfort her even tho I didnt know what to say since I don't know her that well. A couple days after that she sent me a video of her naked and crying in the shower and said she was thinking about me. I don't know why she's sending me these things or how I'm even supposed to respond. I left her on read but I feel bad about it now. wtf am I supposed to say?
We don't have any classes together but sometimes she finds me in the hallways or comes to sit by me at the end of the day when Im waiting for the bus. Shes touchy. Last week she wrapped her arms around me from behind and asked if she could sit on my lap. I panicked and said I had to go because my bus was there (it wasn't) then quuckly left. I feel really weird about it because I don't want to push her away and hurt her feelings but I also don't want to feed into whatever her problem is by letting her be all over me. And I'm obviously not going to reciprocate her touchyness because that would just feel wrong. I really don't think she's okay at all. I don't want to take advantage of her.
I need advice from someone on how to handle this. I don't want to tell my friends or ask them for advice because I don't want to put her on blast. I don't want the personal stuff that she's told me to go around the school or anything
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Thank God this kinda boy still exist. Btw you shouldn't feel sorry about how you reacted. It's fine. You just need to clearly tell her to stop all that and that you respect her but don't think about her in that way. And she had really some problems. No girl ask someone to rape her even though she got some kinks in her sexual life but even though a girl wants to be submissive and being dominated she would not ask for it unless he's her boyfriend. So just tell her to stop that.
ReplyMaybe she wants you to rape her so that she can get you into trouble. Keep away from her.
ReplyThat's such an uncomfortable and uneasy situation to be in...regardless I do commend your conduct in this scenario. Even in such wrong, you did it all right okay? Take a breath love.
Is there someone in your friend group who's emotionally intelligent enough to understand the depth of this situation? Who could help you deal with it more easily and not make a rumour out of this? Are you sure? There's no harmless way to go about it actually which is not bad. Severe issues require severe measures to actually help both people. But the thing is, for a person to turn out that way, I'm scared as to what might be happening in her household itself. She naturally needs some revolutionary and warm guidance..I need to know more to give any effective advice tbh.
I'm the kind of person who would want to be safe myself but I also need the other person to be okay in the sense that I know they are going to get better. And you also seem to reflect that value. (Correct me if I'm wrong tho, I'm just making observed assumptions). Which is why no wonder you haven't told anyone yet. But this is okay. I don't know her. We are strangers. It's okay to reach out and I'M GLAD you did. You're not alone anymore in dealing with this completely okay?
Does your school have a counsellor? If so, how are they?
ReplyDude I'd just tell her your not into her and to leave you alone. She sounds immature
Replyyou need to tell her parents, she needs real help. if you keep it to yourself she could move on to to someone else who will really hurt her.
Replyooo get this b^tch in trouble... you should tell the school or her parents, and you should be able to talk to your friends and let them help you. GL!
ReplyReport her for sexual harassment and protect yourself. Consider writing a statement for her to enter a psychiatric ward or clinic to receive help.
ReplyYou need to tell her you are not interested but keep the chats because if she's willing to say that to you she will say it to anyone and it might cost someone else their whole life and you have proof that she's kind of fucked up in the head. If she continues trying to get your friend's girlfriend to talk to her if you do not want to air out the girl's business to your friend and his girl then you can give them the gist of it that she, 's not your type and she won't leave you alone. If it continues to go to the principal and tell the WHOLE story im serious say everything most likely parents will be called and they will deal with it.
Replyeww i'm so sorry. please stay away from her because she is definitely trying t take advantage of you. sending love xx
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