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I really really miss him i really thiught he would be my true love the guy i would marry one day, have kids and make our own family. What hurts most is that as soon as i felt loved by someone for once he just walked out of my life like i didnt matter to him. He left me for a hirl that is okder than him and has a dayghter. it also hurts that the fact he told me abt her just a week after our break up. For christmas he gave me one of those big giant teddy bears and he would bring me roses everytime we would see each other he didnt care if he had seen me the day before he still brought flowers with him..My parents lutteraly loved him and thought we were gonna last when i told them what had happened they said it was maybe just the wront time for us till this day i havent told them that he keft with someone else🥹 but i loved and still love him till this day sometimes i just wish i knew the reason why he left. What did i do wrong? He was like a father figure to me he understood me , i would tell him all my problems. He would bring me medicine and stuff when i was feeling sad or when i was sick. I miss him soo mucha and i know i shouldnt i dont know im just writing everything i feel cause its currently 2:30 and i cant sleep i just wanna talk to someone and feel loved😞. If anybody has some advise please lmk
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My dear, the pain of watching someone leave can be quite unfathomable. Its a trial of despair and a time of what feels like no motivation for anything and a loss of purpose. Most of all shock and almost feeling like you've just buried someone you love. It makes you think why and how could this happen. We as humans experience all our own different worlds of complexities. Who knows why he left and chose another woman, the question of that will plague you for sometime. From what I've read it sounds you truly loved him and foresaw a future with this man. While you question yourself of what you did wrong, take a deep look and know that this has nothing of your fault. It is simply a consequence of circumstances and his poor ambitions that have hurt you. you did not specifically wrong him and while we all as humans have defaults to our nature that cause us to do wrong things, they do not directly stem to someone leaving all the time. My advice here is to go nd take a cold shower or bath, it clears and resituates your mind, allows for physical healing in the body which helps in clearer thinking. Think of ways to begin a new routine, new things to do or experience, things through time will get better when new things occupy your mind. Ground yourself and know who you are, expressing on here as well is suitable. give yourself some time to grieve as that is natural. find different comforts outside of him and such, itll be hard at first but it will help. Sincerest regards - Rize
Replyyou need to be with someone you both contribute each of you, not someone who is like your father and has everything over you.
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