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I am not mature enough.
I am currently studying, have a part time job, and have a love life.
I want to attend all my classes but I would always end up late due to my part time. My school works are doubled since I also have to answer my lover's paper.
I don't have enough time.
It felt heavy. I want to give up one of these burdens. What should I do? If you were in my position, what would you give up and prioritize?
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Prioritize your studies. If your part time job is where you get money for tuition, you can keep it but maybe you can ask for consideration from your employer for time allowance? Perhaps you can clock out early.
You lover might get mad, but his/her school works is his/her responsibility not yours. I'm sure he/she would understand if you would prioritize yourself.
ReplyGive up answering your lover's paper.
What love life is that? Are you mature enough for a love life. Just because other people have someone doesn't mean you have to have a love life.
Give up your part time job, if you don't need it.
Don't give up your education
ReplyBreak up with your partner, they shouldn't be relying on you for their answers. You need to tell your part time job that you need more flexible hours. I understand working is important for teenagers if you come from a low SEB, so maybe do some later shifts instead? I'm thinking 6-11. Or something similar.
Definitely prioritise school. Over absolutely anything. It offers more opportunities than a part time job or a lover could ever give you.
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