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Venting.
He got lazy in bed. It was great the first 5 times, then I started noticing that the effort was disproportionate. I was coming up with all the ideas. The massages, the adventures, the outfits, etc. He did one fun night where he lit a bunch of candles but that was it. I did a test where I stepped off the gas to see if he would take the reigns. He struggled to stay with it and it felt like he didn't know what to do. He ended up going soft halfway through, despite my eye contact and enthusiasm.
I'm gonna have to cut him off for a few weeks so he can reset. He's gotten spoiled by my effort and now he's gotta pull it together. He doesn't know it yet but I'm going to be "busy" the next few weeks.
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Why don't you get one of those vibrators that give you orgasms all day? I feel like that's what you need.
ReplyI've got one. 😁
Replyhe might not want to hear it, but talk to him about his fantasies. he is obvious differently from your form of desire.
ReplyWe sorted that out on #2. He said he doesn't have any fantasies in particular. He's got a praise kink so I make sure to incorporate that each time (with authenticity). He's always excited to see me--he even took the day off of work because he was so excited--but I dunno, he just...fizzled out. I once heard that guys will accept the invitation but make themselves look bad in purpose to avoid hurting the girl's feelings in hopes that she will phase herself out. Hopefully that's not what's happening. Maybe I'll circle back in a few weeks to see what's up. Another possibility is that he might be seeing someone else (which is completely fine--we are not exclusive) but if he likes her, he may not want to give up the good booty but is feeling guilty or something. 🤷🏼♀️ Anyway, I'll give him some space and see what's up in a few weeks.
ReplyYou're playing games. It'll get you NOWHERE.
ReplyMaybe he is seeing someone
ReplyAre you guys married?
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