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My boyfriend and I have been struggling with finding the right time to go on dates, but on Thursdays, he's available. Today is Thursday, and we were supposed to go on a date, but he's giving his cousin a tour of the university, and I've been waiting for hours, but I'm hungry and feel like I should just go to dinner by myself. However, this always happens. He always wants me to wait around for him while he devotes his time and energy to other things. And I always have to do things by myself anyway because it becomes too late and I don't feel like waiting any longer. Should I just take that burden off his shoulders and be single?
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The burden is not on his shoulders, its on yours. He thinks that you'll just be there when he wants you and that he won't have to do anything. Be single only if its something you think will make you happy! No one deserves to be alone unless they want to be. Except for a select few who I don't like very much ;) human nature is interesting. Anyway, he is using you. Don't let him! You are worth so much more!!
ReplyI think you should find someone who puts you more of a priority.
ReplyTell him that if he keeps treating you like this you will have to find someone else.
ReplyThe best thing to do is check in on your relationship. Have a talk with him about whether he really wants to continue this relationship. You should also listen to your feelings. Do you really feel happy when your with him? Or do you feel uncomfy,or even stressed? And by the way, the burden is not on his shoulders, its more on yours. I hope this helps.
ReplyWhy would you have to be single just because he's not in the picture? Get someone else who wants to spend quality time with you or be content on your own.
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