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advice....I swear I WILL read every single comments and respond/like them <3
1 year ago · 14 · Need Advice, +4
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im so sick of some people right now. people have been spreading so many rumors about me and my friends that im honestly so tired of it. like I haven't done anything to bother the people spreading rumors about me so why are they then? the gossip abt me and my friends has gotten to a point that it affects the way people see/think abt us when they first meet us. im not a bad person but if the people trash talking me think im annoying, just don't talk to me then! the same people gossiping abt us keep trying to come back to us and talk to us whenever they get the chance. and at the same time the spread rumors. so I just don't understand if I should take the chance and be friends with them or not. I most likely will not. but what I don't understand is that did I cause something for them to be spreading so much trash around abt me? or do I have to try to change myself to their liking? someone pls give advice and I swear I will read respond and like to every comment I get on this. tysm for reading my ranting...you are appreciated:) <3
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hey! I feel like whoever likes u likes u and whoever doesn't just doesn't. if yk what I mean! so don't feel the need to change urself just because of what someone said abt u and ur friends.
Replyhiiii! its the creator of this post btw, I just wanted to say ur really kind and thank you so much for your advice! I think ur right...I won't change myself just because of what they said about me and my friends. I hope u have a great rest of the day! Thank you so much. <3
Replyaww, ur so sweet :)
Replydo NOT change urself plz. trust me ive gone through something similar to this and u do not wanna change urself. these are just small obstacles which can easily be ignored. my suggestion is to ignore, keep calm, and move forward. and if they come back to talk to you/be friends, u can talk to them but I would suggest to not be friends with them bc u may be in a fake friend kind of relationship with them. these are just some of my suggestions for u!
ReplyGot it! (hi its the creator of the post!) I've been trying to ignore and I will ofc keep continuing to. thank u so much for ur advice--it's greatly appreciated! and ur right, if I talk to them again I may be heading into the fake friends road which I do not want to fall into again lol. I hope ur having a good day so far! tysm for ur advice!
Replyahhhh:) u responded!!!! lol anyways u seem like a rlly cool and sweet person tbh.
Replythank u! u seem rlly kind as well! :)
ReplyI've been in you shoes. Honestly really not that long ago either, maybe a year max. And honestly it still hurts. All the advice I can give you is that don't change yourself, and people are a^holes and they hurt people because they are 99% insecure with themselves, and they just get pure amusement from hurting people. Just act like it doesn't bother you, and keep your head held high, and like my grandma said to me a lot before she passed "Kill Them With Kindness." Honestly I've had no better advice given. Be confident, ignore every bad thing about you. Soon you'll find out that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you, all that matters is that you love yourself. <3
ReplyI totally agree! Ignoring would be the best option in this case! <3
ReplyI would confront the people talking about you and ask them what's up with that. Watch how they react. See what they have to say. Don't change yourself at all. But stick up for yourself. Don't let others ruin your life.
ReplyHey! Tbh, I've done this before and they really didn't say much. They just called me and my friends annoying and I was just like ok then lol. But thx for the advice! :)
ReplyEither they just are just plain and don't like you or they are jealous of you. Sometimes sadly you can't stop it from happening. The biggest way to stop gossip like for example somebody comes up you and goes "Omg do you know what so and so did!!!???" . You ask them how do they know and who told them. If its hear say they'll never be able to answer you totally and prove it.
Anyway, as others are saying here don't change yourself. Just keep being you. There are ways of dealing with trouble like that , ignore it, or sometimes you do have to confront people to make them leave you alone. But if its not harming you just let it go over your head.
I've been trashed alot before too. I would just say Im not worried about it I don't care because at days end not everyone knows the real me. If you want to know the truth then get to know the real me. Anyway, take care I hope it gets better for you , I think you're an awesome person xx <3
ReplyYour right! I guess not everyone is gonna like me! ur rlly nice too btw :)
ReplyDo not ever change yourself to be liked or to fit in. Find the right people who like you for you. They're most likely talking and spreading rumors because they envy and are jealous of you. Stick with the friend you currently have, meeting new people is scary but clear up the rumors if the bring it up. After clearing yourself up and they still treat you based off the rumor spread, they were never a true friend. Find the right people who care and genuinely like you, not to use and exploit you. I hope it gets better and I hope my advice helped.~
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