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theres nothing i want more than to meet someone organically, get to know them, and slowly fall in love with them. move from acquaintances to friends to cute slight flirty tension to falling in love and dating. i just want that to happen so badly and idek where to start. dating apps maybe to make friends or connections?? well no most people already have dating as the goal and getting there is quick. i honestly dont like the idea of getting to know someone while you date them... i feel like i should know them already. if im dating them then im less likely to leave when i learn things about them i dont like. idk. so next option is going out. where do i go? clubs? no thats for hookups and i cant do that. bars? eh no, im 25 and i dont want to get creeped on by older men that had one too many drinks and have lost any and all boundaries. if there are "bar" type places for younger people to just chit chat that would be nice. i just really want to find a third place. somewhere i can feel comfortable, welcome, and can socialize a little bit here n there. i wanna meet people like that. but then i think about the quote "love happens when you lease expect it" well id be joining a 3rd place with that goal in mind so i would just be getting my hopes up. idk. then i think do those kind of things only work if your conventionally attractive? meeting people in person i mean. im not that pretty. i think i look nice but im not the model pretty skinny white girl so idk. im also quiet and shy, whos gonna wanna come up to me??? just for me to be shy and not talk a whole lot. my socializing skills are not that great. im getting better but im socially anxious at times and im bad at picking up social cues. im just very much in my lover girl mood, hopefully itll go away in a few days but thats all i want right now. i wanna hold and touch and kiss a s/o. i wanna take care of them and feel loved and cared for. how do adults do it lol ig i have time but if i dont put in any kind of effort ill be like this in my 30s then my 40s then my 50s, then ill be on my death bed being like "hmm ig i ran out of time huh" i really hope one day i look back and thank myself for holding out but for now it feels like that will never happen.
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ReplyYou could try and find a cafe where people are open and friendly and you like being.
Or a park. Or maybe that’s just me in my element of places I like to chill at :)
Replya good idea that I will eventually work up the courage to doing
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