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My boyfriend of almost 2 years now. So, I don’t know like I just get hurt by his actions. He is a real nice person and all but his priorities are quite different. We are in college together now and in the morning when he wants, he comes and picks me up and somedays he just leave without me. Similarly, after college ends he sometimes drops me and sometimes he just leaves and Idk what to expect. At college also, I try to hold his hands and he refuses most of the time saying teachers might see etc etc. During class we sit together with two of our friends. It’s the bench of 4 people and I try to talk to him, hold his hands but he doesn’t take up that much of interest. He just jokes around talk to his guy friend and Yesterday, I thought we could spend some time together at his place since it’s been a long time but he just said he couldn’t as his brothers are coming over and said tomorrow we will and tomorrow arrived which is today and he just left me in college and went home saying he had to be home early. So many times he just leaves without saying goodbye.
Whenever I share what I’m feeling he tries to shower me with extra care and love but then it’s again back to not caring. He is always loving and caring when he thinks I am leaving or I am mad. And he is also very kind caring lovinnt when we haven’t had sex for a long time and after that he is very chill and not caring after we have done it. I can just feel this action towards me and I tried to tell him about this and he just denies it.
I don’t even know what to do what to expect. I am so much clueless. I don’t know if I am overthinking or what? If I am overthinking then why do I feel this way. I try my best not to feel it but when his actions are so clear I can’t help. I try to be the best girlfriend even though I may not be perfect and made mistakes, gotton angry.
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Actions speak way louder than words, and his actions are making you feel unwanted. You should really look into what it is what you want from a partner rather than sacrificing and giving him chances
ReplyYou can both go to relationship counselling for help. Many relationships end because one's needs aren't being met.
ReplyU yourself have answered your question. Below.
He is only USING U. HE IS GETTING EVERYTHING FREE. HE DOESN'T HAVE TO BOTHER ABOUT U. Where is the LOVE? this is NOT love. Any boy wanting sex is not love.
Study now
boys r not worth it these days. Why do u need a biyfriend? Cos others have one?
LEAVE HIM
He is always loving and caring when he thinks I am leaving or I am mad. And he is also very kind caring lovinnt when we haven’t had sex for a long time and after that he is very chill and not caring after we have done it.
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