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So I have a girlfriend for almost 5 years now. We have a kid, house, dog... But I feel lately like we are toxic for each other. Not in a violent way but more in a passive way. I've deal with mental issue for as long I can remember and right now, it is a rough time for me. I feel like I have so much negative energy that is now affecting her. She is not feeling well and is on leave at work since January. We are almost 24/7 together and I feel suffocated and stuck.
I want to feel better but we are doing wrong choice together with food, lack of activities and such. I am scared that if I am doing better and not her, it will create a distance in our relation and be the beginning of the end... if that makes sense.
So I do nothing and I feel I am waiting for her to be ready to make a move with me. I can't fight for both of us right now. I did that few months ago and cheer her up and all. But I don't have enough in me for that anymore. I barely have enough to kick my ass to do something of my life.
I am really scared to loose her because I grew more into a ''new me'' when she remined the same. I know I should do my life and choose happiness for myself but I can't bare the idea...
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Take a break. There's no harm to try the new form of yourself. As you already scared of loosing her, your new self will be scared too. Often we get bored with our regular life. I guess you are having the same.
ReplyYou are in a bad place right now with a woman that you love. Everything changes in time. If you can bare this difficult period, stay with her. A lesson that both of you will learn is that she does not create your happiness and you don't create hers. Happiness is your individual nature and you guys help each other express this. I've been where you are and I stayed with her. I'm glad I did.
ReplyBoth of you should see a relationship counselor.
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