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Boy Problems- Please give advice (seriously needed)!!!!!!!!!!
11 months ago · 3 · Need Advice, +10
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We've been talking for almsot a year. We've hungout twice. Let's call him A. Now A is about 3 years older than me. Most of the time we just snap and text. Every now and then I'll send him a photo and he will call me hot and strike up a conversation. He has told me how he wants to do it with me (Iykyk) in text, but never in person. The last time we hungout (about 2 weeks ago) we cuddled in his dorm bed (just cuddling nothing else) and kissed while watching a movie and later on talking. I personally like him but I havent fallen in love with him becuase obsviously I dont hang out with him all that often. Today He told me I looked hot and we talked here and there. I asked him if he liked me and he told me he thought I was hot. He did not say he likes me though. I've asked him that question another time and he said he's very attracted to me. Now I feel like this is physcially though. When I met up with him in his dorm he was way more shy, and didnt say anything about how I looked or if he liked me. The other day he posted on a private story he was looking for a gf, I replied that I was looking for a bf and he said nothing. Now I dont know if he wants a relationship because Ive hinted at the fact that I like him and I straight up told him " I really like you we would be a cute couple together." I dont know though he didnt say anything to that other than "we would." Now this guy has a snap score of like 1 million and follows like a 1000 girls on insta but he is not like popular Literally only like 300 people follow him back (he never gave me his insta I just found it). He is always on snap and text responding instantly to people. I dont think hes ever had a girlfriend or done anything with anyone other than me because when we first met up I had to teach him how to kiss and stuff. He was also really akward. Additionally, we've been on 2 date prior to hanging out. I lowkey think he likes my physically but since we havent gotten to know each other much he doesnt really know me. But he's also giving me super mixed vibes. Like if he liked me and I straight up admitted I had a little crush on him then why didnt he say anything back?? On top of that before he started calling me hot and stuff I asked him out on a date and he flat out didnt go even though I asked him if he was coming. But after that happened he has been more attentive with me. Like he's been calling me hot and cute like 2-3 time a week, and hes been more communicative and flirty. All my friends say hes really ugly though (even my mom thinks he is ugly- he also met my parents they liked his personality but they lowkey thinks hes kinda ugly) but I think hes really cute and nerdy, and that honestly my type. I might ask him whats going on some time this month but honestly any time I try and initiate the topic of "our relationship" like what we are he kinds dodges it. Like Ik were not dating but "friends" dont cuddle and kiss till like 4 am on a monday. I also dont believe he has invited any girls over or "flirted" with me like he does because like I said he isn't all that attractive to other girls. I've never looked at his like phone contacts or snap friends so i have no way of knowing this. But I just know he is not a player, or at least I believe he is not (my dad says he doesnt think he has had any experience because I described the awkwardness he had when we hung out). And while he may be "shy" he did go up to me and ask me for my snapchat while I was walking to class one day. We are both in college I am a freshman and this is his 3rd year. I also think hes a v*rgin because he said he wanted to loose his v*rginity to me. So idk please give advice and sorry for the long rant. I just really want to know because it is driving me crazyyyy. The question is not if I like him (because I honestly have had a bigger crus on him than I've ever had) but if he likes me back. Like what is my situantionship rn, should I ask him out or what?? - one last sidenote for valentines day he didnt get me anything even though he was beginning to be a little flirty back then.
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I believe he is just s*xually attracted to you and maybe not into you romantically, maybe talk to him???
ReplyHe is trash. I know many such men. Leave him sooner than later.
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