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Hi, I'm 17 yrs. old and it's the first time i experienced the ‘talking stage’ thingy. So I met this guy online, we started of as roleplaying as if we're in a romantic relationship. Then, when it got better, I asked him if he wanted to continue the play because I don't wanna get my hopes high (I don't know why I felt that). He replied that he still want to continue and we kept the conversation. It's been two weeks since we've been chatting each other. I cannot comprehend if it was romantic or just friendly. We keep on updating each other, that's when I started to get confused. I asked myself what are we doing? I don't know if I have interest on him or just an idea. Might this be because of my attachment issues slash easily awed when someone give me attention? I don't know. I found myself longing to his replies though and overthinking what if he's chatting with others too? I'm afraid of being left dumbfounded, and I really can't express my feelings well so I hope you understand everything I typed here. Thank you!
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when you both started to chat, it seems to have been just a game. A game that feels nice to play so you wanted it to keep going. Don't feel like this isn't okay to do, but if you're starting to actually like this person, voice that out. Let them know that this game of foreplay isn't what you want anymore but something more realistic. Men typically don't take hints correctly so I would tell them how you feel so far. If its just a fling you want from them, go for it. If it's something more you desire, say that. And !IF! they only wanted this game and not what you are needed next, its okay to end it right there and then and grow with the knowledge that you have now to the right person. Take care hun
ReplyBe extremely careful of people you meet online. There are a lot of predators online, so unless you have a sure way of confirming this person's age and where they live, then be careful.
In my humble opinion, stick to finding romance in your proximity. I've always found that time, space, chemistry and compatibility are the key elements of romantic love. Time and space being close in proximity where you can see each other on a daily or very regular basis. Best of luck.
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Mark 12:28-31
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