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I'm a mom of 4 and I feel stressed out with the kids. Sometimes I wish I waited to have them. These kids are smarter than most children their age yet these kids destroy everything I own and not in a normal way...i literally have to start over again on buying appliance's,living room set,bedroom sets,new plumbing and redo my walls...my family don't want the kids over their house and regardless of all the discipline and lectures and grounding or time outs(for the toddlers) these kids (ages 10,7,4,2) learn nothing of home training and I hate to say it but I feel like I've given birth to animals and not children ....you should see my house...its ridiculous...i work so hard for nothing .
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Sounds like they need a spanking
ReplyFirst of all, lady, your anxiety is being learned by them. If you are anxious they will reflect it like monkey. Calm down.
1. Now, reserve a place where they are allowed to come and where it is completely out of bounds.
2. Take charge, you cannot let them run the house , you are THE MANAGER not the BELLBOY.
3. Consider their diet, are they eating too much carbs? Lot of carbs make kids a little hyper and unruly. Cut them on buns, bagels and breads. Just feed them complex carbs in nuts, oats, whole wheat and protein rich food like legumes, garbanzo, chick peas and chicken. No sugary stuff, no biscuits, no deserts.
4. Treat them with tasty things ONLY if they clean up the house with you. They are too little to understand complex chores but cleaning is something they understand once they are 2 years of age.
5. 1-2 hours of natural play time outside. SUNLIGHT plays a major role. In older times, people used to push kids outside to play, jump, be monkeys.. this is the real deal.
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