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so my bf and I have been dating for almost four months and we really love each other but the past couple weeks have been non stop fighting like constant fights both big and small like idk it hasn't been this dream fantasy like it has been the past months and idk what to do we always say that we aren't going to fight anymore and really take time to communicate but it always lead back to fighting
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I've met some people who have this problem too. Small fights sometimes can be solved quickly if any of you volunteered to say sorry or explain that fights would not make an issue be solved easily. If it has been going on for a few months, I think that is when you have to think about your relationship. Ask yourself if you can still handle this, if you need rest, if you don't feel like being loved anymore or if this is the thing that you really want? Think about yourself too and not just others. Making decisions is more better than not having any.
ReplyYou both definitely need to see a relationship therapist so that you can learn to communicate in a proper and sensible way. This is the pattern you have got yourselves into so you need help to undo this pattern and create a much better one.
ReplyUps and downs is completely normal in a relationship try to learn the root cause of your fight and then when you eradicate the root cause then slowly things start getting better! And remember communication is the key to everything!
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