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Pang-lima sa 10 commandments ang "Honor your father and your mother", pero paano ko ito masusunod sa kabila ng mga nagawa nila. Ang ina ko left us ng walang pasabi sa mura naming edad na siyang naging reason why we became a broken family at magpaparamdam ngayong malaki na kami ng parang wala lang. Then, my father became an addict after kaming iwan ng ina namin, sa halip na ipagpatuloy nya ang pagtataguyod sa aming magkakapatid, he became the worst father. Naging suki siya ng iba't-ibang gulo, maging mga kapatid (niya na kasama sa bahay at nag-iintindi sa mga anak nya) at mga anak nya ay sinasaktan na n'ya.
So sa tingin n'yo wala ba akong karapatang magalit sa kanila? Bilang panganay, ako ang naiipit sa lahat ng problema. Problema sa mga kapatid ko maging na rin sa problema sa ama ko. Mga magulang ko ang puno't dulo lahat ng problema na kinakaharap naming magkakapatid. Iyong pangalawa sa aming magkakapatid nagrerebelde, iyong bunso naman namin ay hindi na nakapag-aral dahil sa tuwing papasok sa school ay binubully, pero wala akong magawa dahil hindi naman nila ako kasama dahil kinuha ako ng tita ko para pag-aralin.
Kasalanan pa rin ba na maituturing kung galit ako sa mga magulang ko dahil sa mga nagawa nila?
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May karapatan kang magalit sakanila. Lalo na sa gantong sitwasyon na tipong sila na yung nagiging problema natin. Mahirap ikimkim ang nararamdaman at gusto nating sabihin sakanila. Minsan nga lang hindi sila nakikinig at hindi rin nakakatulong minsan kahit mangiyak ngiyak ka na sa harapan nila. Kung ikaw na yung nagagambala sakanila o hindi na nila ginagampanan yung pagiging magulang nila, ikaw na yung mag simulang magisip.
ReplyI don't speak Philipino English. But its hard not to hate your parents especially when they're abusive to you. It does say honor thy father and mother that thy days may be long on the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.
I feel they should be as respectful to you as you are to be to them. Like do unto others as you would have them do unto you. That's just my feelings.
I can't really answer your question. But what one pastor said if you can't get along with with them to acknowledge and respect them in that they brought you into the world. Hope this helps some.
ReplyOne of the commandments says to honour your parents which means to respect them. You don't have to love them. It isn't a sin to hate them.
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