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Just a little vent here.
This friend of mine has a strong curriculum, managed to make some money with her side hustle. But, one thing that I'm not liking at all is how she "waits" for things to get critical, so she starts asking other friends for money. I helped her once because she was running out of food at home and her family is struggling. And, she always says that she doesn't get hired by companies, stores and so on: her appearance. I mean, to the hell with it because I'm not even matching the beauty standards as well. Now, I can't help because my boss didn't pay me yet. I also have my responsibilities, bills and such. I'm noticing a pattern in this situation, asking for help when the deadline is due.
What would you do?
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you should focus on yourself, she's mostly relying on you by the seems of it, tell her in a polite way she should focus more on getting a job even if part time and that you cant always support her, if she still really needs money then slowly lower the amount but I would reccomened stopping. optional set her up a go fund me page or ask for support from your family and friends on what to do as they might know the situation better
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Blessed be!
Replybe honest with her. tell her how you feel.
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